So, this is only vaguely political (I could bring *gag* Sarah Palin into this conversation, I suppose).
Is is too much to expect that I can have both an education and career along with a husband and family and all of us be happy? Am I being a Polyanna in thinking that's possible?
Note: I AM willing to make compromises...compromises I've already made in that I no longer plan to be a Foreign Services Officer with the State Department and that I've tried to look at which job would be available to my (potential?) lifelong mate at the places I want to go to grad school...